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April 22, 2019

Church of God Convention 2019

Orlando, Florida | June 27-30

Our 2018 regional conventions theme was Receive. Hear. Embrace. This is the imago dei: Who we are created in the image of God. We want to receive, hear, and embrace all that God is, does, and gifts to us. These are personal experiences that we have authentically tasted.

Out of this grows our mission  missio dei  the communitys expression of what we have known and how we will live it out in the world. If we are the body of Christ, then we have the opportunity to GIVE LIFE in Jesus name. Can the aroma and fragrance of our very presence, speech, and action bring life? Jesus is the model and our relationship with him empowers us to experience and share. How did he breathe life? How did he speak life? How did he give life?

April 15, 2019

Why “We Need To Reach the Young People” Might Distract Your Church

by Mike Leake, Senior Pastor, 1st Baptist Church Marionville, Missouri

"If you don't reach young people your church is going to die".

I have heard that sentiment quite frequently when thought leaders (whatever those are) get together and discuss revitalization in local churches. Logically it's absolutely true. If an organization does not perpetuate it will not survive into the next generation. It is right for a church to be concerned if they only have gray heads. But there is an underlying theology within this statement which I believe will lead to death instead of life.

Peel off a layer of that onion and you see what dominates the conversation is self-preservation. It's not unnatural to not want to die. It’s quite normal to not want a beloved organization to die. In fact, God can use a drive for self-preservation for His glory. A church which realizes it is dying is far better than one living in denial. A church which says, "we'll do anything to not die" is in better shape than one which says, "we won't change even if it means death".

But a church cannot stay there. Because a church focused upon it's own survival is a church just waiting to die. The church, just like disciples, is meant to be self-denying for the sake of the kingdom. Doing things which are motivated by self-preservation are opposed to the ethics of God's kingdom. A church might even “turn around” by a good focused mission. But if the foundation is self-preservation instead of kingdom-expansion, don’t be surprised when the good news of Jesus becomes more explicitly secondary.

What about rather than saying, "your church is going to die" we say "your church is going to lose its impact on the community for the sake of Christ's kingdom"? This is getting at the real tragedy behind a church closing its doors. It's not simply that a beloved institution which once gave great memories is now terminated. The real pain is that influence for the kingdom is no longer happening in this sphere.

There does need to be a focus on reaching young people with the gospel of Jesus. (Just as there is a focus on reaching for Christ all those made in God's image). But if you start with self-preservation that focus is only going to go so far. Because what happens when you actually begin reaching "those" people and it changes the dynamic within your beloved institution? That old impulse of self-preservation is going to rear its ugly head.

The key question isn't, "do we want to reach the young people in our community". Rather, the key question is whether or not our hearts are kingdom focused instead of self-preservation focused. That will help with asking the right questions about what our Lord calls our particular local church to do well. A particular local church might not ever be the church which reaches hordes of young people. Or it might. That's up to Jesus. Our job is to be faithful with what we have been given in the place in which God has called us to serve.

Ask kingdom questions. Don't ask self-preserving questions. That changes everything.

Recommended by Rev. Jerry Lyon, Church Health Minister, Church of God in Michigan

April 8, 2019

Why We Need To Hear What People Say About Us

by Caron Loveless

When you hear the same negative comment about you from several sources, it's probably time to stop saying, they just don't get me and time to investigate why you're unable to see how others experience you. Years ago, I was leading a team in our church and things weren't progressing well. I tried all the typical team building exercises I knew to improve the connection but it seemed like people were holding back in our meetings.

Later, I discovered, part of the glitch was some in the group felt intimidated by me. Others thought I didn't value their ideas as much as my own. I was stunned. I honestly saw myself as a warm, inviting leader who gave everyone an equal opportunity to contribute.

When I thought about it, there had been other times similar remarks got back to me:

"She needs things to go her way."
"Her opinions are so strong I'm reluctant to offer mine."
"She can be intense."

My response to these comments went from, "I don't understand. I think I'm a pretty patient and inclusive leader" to "What's their problem? Don't they know it takes decisive leadership to get things done?"

Even as sharp and self-aware as we think we are, other people aren't as invested in us as we are so they can be more objective about how we're coming across. We always want to see ourselves in the best light so we internally block ourselves from believing negative feedback.

So, we resist. We think others are exaggerating or worse- that THEY are the problem. Our first reaction when someone tells us "you can be abrasive" or "you're always in a hurry" or "you always have to be right" or "you take too much credit for things" is to defend ourselves.

Most people have our best interests at heart when they tell us the truth. And we should probably trust their insights about us more than we do.

But, often, it takes a showdown or crisis to pry us open to hearing how we actually come across. It's after we've been let go from our job or lost a friend or exited a marriage that the slap stings enough to wake us up to important issues we refused to see.

No matter how long you've been at it, there's still room to grow.

And even though people love us as we are, all our relationships run smoother, with greater connection and efficiency when we are able to listen with humility to the feedback others have been trying to give us. Honest feedback is hard to hear. Especially if we're too attached to other's approval or sensitive to constructive criticism. But it's a skill that can be honed and mastered.

  • What can you do in the days ahead to cultivate better openness to the feedback of others for the sake of your marriage, family, and work relationships?
  • What would it take for you to be more open to the possibility that some part of what others are saying or have said is true about you?
  • When was the last time you invited a few trusted friends to help you gain clearer insight into areas of your behavior you've been unaware of?

I figured out that it's near impossible for me to hear unpleasant things about myself with low self-esteem and a faulty assurance of my unchangeable preciousness to God.

Some key internal assumptions I had about me had to change.

I'm learning, through Christian meditation and contemplation how to live experientially and consistently from the truth that at my core I am a fully approved child of God, enough as I am, free from shame. And it's strengthening me to hear the occasional unpleasant truth about my shadow side with much less fear and defensiveness.

The bottom line: I'm a much better leader and less shaken by helpful comments.

April 1, 2019


Rev. Arlyn Willett, Pastor, Calvert Park Community Church of God in Burton

My wife got saved because long ago, someone came to the door and invited her to Jesus. Our church doesn't really have a door to door ministry because it does seem a little invasive. I often wonder if we get too apathetic at our church and don't even realize it.

How often do we go to a door and ask a total stranger if they are saved? Or if they want to be? (Any kind of opened door metaphorically).

I feel that my church organization, The Church of God, is a church of sound believers, who all have a great story of how they came to christ. We gather and praise the Lord, I'm not really sure though, what goes on the rest of the week. Most likely, we all head out to our normal days, finding time to do our daily devotions and saying prayers throughout the day, trying our best to stay focused on our relationship with our Lord.

I'm sure that some even get to think about the times that they went on mission trips, where they spent the whole week helping some people that were not nearly as fortunate as we are. Very nice thoughts to get them through the day.

I tried to help one of our churches by doing a fundraiser for them to help them get a new projector because the poor unfortunate church had to use an overhead projector and transparent paper to put their worship words on the wall. We did reach the monetary goal, but what a bummer that church and its 12 or so members just didn't seem to get things moving there. It's so weird, not long after they closed their doors, some other church organization moved in and next thing we know, the place is packed and there are like three school (church) buses parked there. I guess they pick up kids all over the neighborhood in them buses for free! Boy it sure is good to see that old Church of God building thrive again.

Gosh I wonder if those people from that other church of God, the ones that went on the mission trip, if they do any missions at all now that they're home? I wish our church could do a mission trip, but our people are pretty busy, much too busy really, "some of us work ya know."

I was listening to our national pastor preach once, and he said that when he moved in to Anderson, he thought he'd get acquainted with some of the other church leaders in town, so he went to several. Actually he ended up making a pretty good friendship with the Catholic priest and started having lunch once a week with him. Pastor said that he told his new friend that he liked how sacred everything seemed at the catholic church, but what he didn't really agree with, was how they had to confess everything to the priest in order to be forgiven. The priest said yeah, he's sure that going to the lord with their prayers would be just as easy but then some people just need to get it off of their chest by going to the confessional. Shoot, a lot of people come to confess, even people from your church, said the priest. My church? said the pastor. That's weird, why would they do that? The priest said that the church of God parishioners told him that they too just needed to get it off of their chest, but boy, if they confessed their sins to their Church of God people, they were afraid that they would become the subject of the new gossip, or even worse, thrown out. They felt best confessing at the Catholic church where nobody would make them feel judged.

My church has 50 to 80 regular members, and it feels victorious being as we started with 12 people. But the town that we belong to, has a population of 33,000. What can we do to build our church and God's kingdom in this community? What can we do to reach all if those people? Are we going wrong somewhere? Everyone in our church seems to be hungry for Jesus, to be praying to the Lord, yet our lives are so busy, all we can seem to do is hope things get better. What is our mission? We love our church, the building and the people, but what's next?

March 25, 2019

Seventh Circuit Court Rules the Clergy Housing Allowance Is Constitutional

To all our church partners in the Servant Solutions family,

We are grateful to share with you that late today (Friday, March 15, 2019) that we received notice from our counsel that the Ministerial Housing Allowance has been upheld to be constitutional by the Seventh District Court of Appeals.

The housing allowance benefit had earlier been declared as unconstitutional in a 7th District Court in Wisconsin when the Freedom From Religion Foundation challenged the housing allowance. Servant Solutions, as a cooperative partner in the Church Alliance, worked in the appeal process and filing of Amicus Briefs with the Court.

Jeff Jenness returned this week from meetings in Washington DC with the Church Alliance Steering Committee had this to say.

"We are very pleased with this outcome as it preserves the decades long provision in the IRS code which allows for the designation of a housing allowance as part of a minister's compensation. We're grateful to the Lord for this outcome."

More detail will follow soon in an upcoming newsletter. You can read the court decree outlining this action here.

March 18, 2019

Is What We Do Important?

Dr. William Jones, State Pastor, Church of God in Michigan

When I was in college my first Summer job was working for a cabinet factory. I was not going to be there long enough to get into the Union, so the plant manager just put me wherever he needed. I pushed a broom my first week which gave me great respect for those who do so. It was murderous. I think the sweeping was a test to see if I would work or loaf. (There was a great temptation to lean on that broom when no one was watching.) After a week of sweeping, the boss decided that I was a worker and could be trusted without a great deal of supervision. He put me and another college student in a warehouse with a trillion cabinet doors and drawers (at least it seemed to be that many to me.) Our job was to sort, re-stack, and categorize all those doors and drawers, then when freight train loads of new material came in, organize that as well. We worked hard!

One day our boss came to our warehouse to talk with us. He said he never had had any workers like me and my college buddy. He commented on how we worked whether he was there or not, and we did not complain (at least to him). He wanted to know why? We both were Christ-followers, but we "hem-hawed" around saying that was the way we were made time go faster...then finally, my friend confessed. He said, "sir, we follow Jesus Christ and the Bible says that we really don't work for you, we work for him...we are to honor him with all we do." Oh, I wished I had said that. Recently, a similar situation occurred. Jalene and I were traveling with Dave and Jeannie Perry in a land far...far away. In a large group of strangers we were asked how long we had been married. Dave and Jeannie were celebrating their 40th anniversary and Jalene and I had just celebrated our 44th. We were by far the longest married in the group and the facilitator asked the secret to longevity. With Dave I first started thinking of funny answers (just say yes dear, whatever you want dear, it was my fault dear...) Then the warehouse came to my mind. I said, "it was because we're Christ-Followers and that makes all the difference." It changed the direction of the facilitators comments toward us; I think in a positive way.

I just got a support letter from a person I barely knew. asking for me to support his Christian Motorcycle fundraiser. In it he wrote that his wife (of many years) still talks about me leading her to Christ, she thought it was cool to have a minister back then who was a biker. He said, "isn't it ironic that she is now married to a Christian Biker?" So Bill what is your point...What we do makes a difference. The Devil and his minions would have us believe that what we do does not matter. In the three incidents above it made a difference for our Plant Manager and for the Presenter, and for this Christian woman. Let us not be afraid to speak up in the public forum about our love and devotion to Jesus Christ. He has given us Life, and Heath, and all things. Though the temptation comes to be silent, let us never be ashamed of our Savior.

March 11, 2019

Go Jesus did.

Rev. David Perry, Pastor, Edgewood Church of God in Ithaca, Michigan

My wife Jeannie and I have six beautiful, adorable, intelligent grandchildren and soon number seven will be here! Some of you who know me may ask, "How do you have such wonderful, beautiful, adorable, intelligent grandchildren?"

I attribute that to superior genetics. My three sons followed my example and married beautiful, adorable, intelligent women like their mother. It was the only hope our family tree had.

One of my grandsons is almost three years old, Gideon Wayne Perry. He has a pet phrase that cracks me up. Gideon loves to play and if you disturb him by saying, "Gideon, time to eat, or to sleep, or to change your diaper..." - his response is, "Go way!".

Hold that thought while we look at scripture in the Gospel of Mark.

Starting in chapter one through chapter 14, count how many times Jesus left the 12 disciples and the adoring crowd to go away and to pray. Then think about this: if Jesus Christ, the Son of God, Savior of the world, made it a priority to go way to pray alone – what does that say to you and me as church leaders?

Take your planner today and make regular plans to go way with God in prayer. To unplug and retreat from others. To pour out your heart and hurts. To be still and to listen to the Holy Spirit. To rest, relax, renew and recharge your spiritual energy.

If you are thinking about a Sabbatical or need help in planning one, contact the State office. We have information and resources to help you. If you need someone to come share with your leadership about this, we would be happy to do so.

So in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and in the words of my grandson, Gideon, I say to you pastors and church leaders, - "Go way!".

March 4, 2019

I Triple Dog Dare You

Rev. David Aukerman, Pastor, Mount Haley Church of God in Midland, Michigan

As another round of snow falls here in central Michigan, I am reminded of a much-beloved Christmas movie, a classic in its own time, "A Christmas Story." One of the iconic scenes in this film involves a series of dares between young boys, as one of them dares another to stick his tongue on a frozen flagpole. The challenges escalate from a meager "I dare you" to "I double dare you," but they reach their climax with the coup de grace of all dares, the sinister "triple dog dare."

But this article isn't about "A Christmas Story." It's about the United Methodist Church.

You are likely aware of the news from this past week's General Conference - the UMC's equivalent to our national General Assembly - where the United Methodist Church met to vote on two related issues: whether or not to allow the ordination of LGBTQ ministers and whether or not to allow ministers to perform marriages of LGBTQ individuals.

After a great deal of impassioned discussion, the UMC voted against the "One Church Plan," which would have allowed individual conferences and districts to make their own decisions on these issues, while maintaining the unity of the denomination. The UMC then voted (with a 53% majority) to approve the "Traditional Plan," which reinforces the heterosexual values approved by previous gatherings of the General Conference.

The United Methodist Church is on the verge of splitting on the issue of same-sex relationships. This certainly would be true if the "One Church Plan" had been approved, but I believe it is still true even with the passage of the "Traditional Plan." Our brothers and sisters in this group are in a really difficult position. Please pray for them, and when you rub shoulders with Methodist ministers, ask them about how they are processing this. Listen to their answers. Give them space to express themselves.

What saddens me most about this situation is how a social issue is splitting apart a Christian fellowship.

What angers me most about this situation is how one's stance on a social issue is perceived to be a determining factor regarding whether or not one is a Christian.

Your stance on same-sex relationships doesn't make you a Christian. Your stance on alcohol consumption doesn't make you a Christian. Your stance on gambling or pornography or abortion or politics or Chick-Fil-A doesn't make you a Christian.

What makes you a Christian is your living, loving, redemptive, transformative connection to Jesus Christ and, by extension, to his church.

I believe that there are honest, authentic Christians on both sides of each of the issues listed above. (Even Chick-Fil-A. And, seriously, even politics. Even abortion. Even same-sex relationships.)

If your response at this point is to say, "Yes, but...," then I ask you simply to wait. Consider those with whom you disagree on any of these important social issues. Listen to their stories. Pray with them. Worship with them. Read scripture with them. Find points of common faith with them. Serve others with them. Don't let a social issue separate you from other followers of Jesus.

I know the Church of God's stance on same-sex relationships. I attended the 360 Conference a few years ago when Ryan Carrell and Bill Jones presented opposing viewpoints on the LGBTQ issue. I was in our national General Assembly a few years ago when we (for at least the fourth time in our history) affirmed something similar to the United Methodists' "Traditional Plan." But here's something else I know:

The Church of God is not finished dealing with the LGBTQ issue. It's not going away. It will come back to our General Assembly again, perhaps in five or ten years - or maybe sooner. And we too, like our Methodist cousins, will be faced with a decision about how to proceed.

Now, we are a small tribe, and our decision will not make headlines like the UMC's decision has this week. But as people who proclaim a message of holiness *and* unity, we cannot allow the LGBTQ issue to divide us (as, I believe, it already is doing).

Prioritize unity to at least as high of a level as you prioritize holiness. Sit down with someone with whom you disagree, and really listen to them. Imitate Jesus, who hung out with (and loved) all sorts of people - and who reserved his harshest judgment for the super-religious Pharisees. Don't let the LGBTQ issue become a litmus test for whether or not a person is a Christian. Don't let the LGBTQ issue split the Church of God into two groups.

I triple dog dare you.

February 25, 2019

God says, "Just Chill...I Got This!"

Rev. David Perry, Pastor, Edgewood Church of God in Ithaca, Michigan

"Why would you ever complain, O Jacob,
    or, whine, Israel, saying,"
"God has lost track of me.
    He doesn't care what happens to me?"
Don't you know anything? Haven't you been listening?
God doesn't come and go. God lasts.
    He's Creator of all you can see or imagine.
He doesn't get tired out, doesn't pause to catch his breath.
    And he knows everything, inside and out."
~ Isaiah 40:27-28 The Message

A while ago, I was in one of those pastoral "Mondays" depressing blah- blues moods. As pastors and leaders, you know what I am talking about. It is the letdown after the weekend of proclaiming the Good News and sharing and leading others to the Throne of God's Grace. And then Monday hits and you whine like a fussy baby.

I was complaining to God about my fear about the future. All stressed out about what is coming up for me and my family  financially, vocationally, and health wise.

I know that there are some things I can work on and do my best in preparing for. Yet so much hangs in the balance in a future that I cannot see or control. Wow, this can really freak you out.

Then I read from Isaiah 40. Friends, let me encourage you to read the whole chapter. Read slowly. Reflectively. Read from several versions. Let the Holy Spirit speak to you.

The Message version kind of slapped me in the face. All this stuff I was stewing on - God knows. God cares. It is like Him saying, "Just chill...I got this."

A little while later, an inspirational meme came to me. A picture of creation with the words,

"I made all this stuff out of nothing. Trust Me...I can take care of you. ~ God"

Hey, pastors and leaders, trust Him. Praise Him. And now, go and serve Him with joy!

February 18, 2019

Don't Give Up Your Bean Field!

Rev. David Perry, Pastor, Edgewood Church of God in Ithaca, Michigan

"Next to him was Shammah son of Agee the Hararite. When the Philistines banded together at a place where there was a field full of lentils, Israel’s troops fled from them. 12 But Shammah took his stand in the middle of the field. He defended it and struck the Philistines down, and the Lord brought about a great victory." ~2 Samuel 23:11-12

I sit on the Board for Helping Hands in Motion, (HHIM) which is a support ministry to indigenous National Leaders of Haiti, India, Sri Lanka, as well as some other closed countries. My friend, Pastor Dennis Huebner from the First Church of God in Elkhart, Kansas, is also the Board Chair. Denny shared these thoughts in devotions at our meeting in January 2019.

The Philistines were terrorists who bullied the Israelites. Often they would wait until harvest time and then raid and steal the harvest that the Israelites had worked so hard for. When the Philistines showed up, the people of God usually ran away. They gave up, they quit, and they lost the crop. It was a bad habit they had developed.

One guy decided he was done running. Shammah, one of David’s Mighty Men listed in 2 Samuel 23. Some would say, "It's just a bean field, it isn't much" but Shammah said nope, here I stand, not giving up, I'm not running away. I am willing to stand and fight for what is right.

Denny asked us if we are in the habit of running or taking a stand. He challenged us that often it just takes one person willing to pay the price to turn a ministry or a church or a life around. How about us - Stand or quit?

A poem from John Greenleaf Whittier entitled "Don't Quit":

When things go wrong, as they sometimes will,
When the road you're trudging seems all uphill,
When the funds are low and the debts are high,
And you want to smile, but you have to sigh,
When care is pressing you down a bit,
Rest if you must, but don't you quit.

Life is queer with its twists and turns,
As every one of us sometimes learns,
And many a fellow turns about
When he might have won had he stuck it out.
Don’t give up though the pace seems slow –
You may succeed with another blow.

Often the goal is nearer than
It seems to a faint and faltering man;
Often the struggler has given up
When he might have captured the victor's cup;
And he learned too late when the night came down,
How close he was to the golden crown.

Success is failure turned inside out –
The silver tint in the clouds of doubt,
And you never can tell how close you are,
It might be near when it seems afar;
So stick to the fight when you're hardest hit –
It's when things seem worst that you must not quit.

February 11, 2019

Trust God

Rev. Dan Whiting, Executive Pastor, Clarkston Community Church in Clarkston, Michigan

Hey Lead/Senior Pastors I greet you in the name of Jesus and from the chair of an Executive Pastor for the past 15 years and for the past several years as a member on the Church Health Team. In recent articles Dr Jones has shared his wisdom on the various rewards and challenges of being a Pastor. I simply want to say to you all who prepare messages, counsel the hurting, balance the budget, clean the worship center, attend late night meetings, gracefully hear complaints and the list goes on... We love you! We know you have had many sleepless nights trying to figure out how to increase giving, attendance, and volunteers. Often you might ask God; “Why have you not increased the flock?" So, from a "Second Chair Leader" I offer you five insights or thoughts just for you today. Not necessarily from any particular author or expert on organizational leadership, but just a few of my observations.

  1. We don't operate from a position of scarcity. God has given us abundance. The world projects the opposite. It is not always about how much money the church has or how many people are sitting in the pews. It is about a big God who can and will provide if...
  2. We stay faithful to the Gospel in all things.
  3. Surround yourself with positive people and associates.
  4. Fix your thoughts on Jesus. Heb 3:1
  5. People will let you down, but Jesus won't.

My opinion is that we (me included) worry too much about what people will think, or some sort of numerical outcome of a program or event. Nope, it's about being faithful to the calling of proclaiming the Gospel. All the rest will take care of itself. Do you really believe that? This does not mean that we don’t work hard. I believe trusting God means we trust Him to give us the power, the supernatural ability to make things happen.

‘Not by might nor by power, but by my Spirit,'says the Lord Almighty. Zech 4:6. Let's redefine success shall we?

“‘Well done, my good servant!' his master replied.'Because you have been trustworthy in a very small matter, take charge of ten cities.'" Luke 19:7

Be encouraged because you are making a difference. I am not a preacher and I don't claim to be a very good evangelist but I leave you with a short story that happened this week. I got a text from a guy I knew very well more than 10 years ago and a non-believer for sure. And for many reasons I won't share here, we had not talked for 10 years. I got a text from him last week that said this.

"I've had a surprising and really wonderful return to the church in the last couple of years. I appreciate you being such a kind and generous example of faith when we were spending more time together."

Stay faithful to the Gospel, trust God and the abundance will come. I believe it! Do you?

February 4, 2019

Dealing with Snarky Critical Comments

Rev. David Perry, Pastor, Edgewood Church of God in Ithaca, Michigan

"All spoke well of him and were amazed at the gracious words that came from his lips. "Isn't this Joseph's son?" they asked." ~Luke 4:22  NIV

If you read this passage in context, Jesus had come back to his hometown. Asked to read at church, He read from Isaiah 61 - a great stirring passage proclaiming the Year of the Lord's favor. It was Jesus' mission statement, his announcement for His public ministry. And all there were amazed as He spoke. It was a grand high moment of the moving of the Spirit through His people.

And yet some wags asked, "Ain't he Joseph's son?" The insinuation was that Jesus was born illegitimate. It was a snarky way to diminish Jesus in this great moment.

I have had this happen several times in ministry where God seems to be moving and great things are happening and then someone has to come along and throw doubt, criticism, and cold water on the work of the Lord. Speaking as a pastor, this is what I find very frustrating to deal with and work through.

May I share a couple of thoughts to help you, my brothers and sisters, who have faced this or who are going to face this soon?

Don't be shocked. If it happened to Jesus, it will happen to His followers, too. As the O'Jay's sang back in 1972 - what they do, they smile in your face...

Don't give up. That is the intent of the forces which seek to distract and who ultimately want to destroy us. Don't give them that satisfaction.

Do forgive. It is part of the pattern of daily prayer Jesus taught us. Learning to forgive is vital for being a good leader.

Do know Whose you are. I am a child of God, I am chosen by the Spirit of God.

Do fulfill your mission. Continue on. Read the rest of Luke 4. Jesus did not stop or retaliate. He didn't even post on social media. He fulfilled His mission of loving, teaching, and healing. So should you, my brothers and sisters.

January 28, 2019

Weight of the World

Dr. William Jones, State Pastor, Church of God in Michigan

Have you ever felt like you have the weight of the world on your shoulders? Many of us have had that lonely feeling that if anything is going to happen here it is because of what I will produce. Some of that stress is good. It motivates us to do our best. It is also important to always remember that success in ministry does not lie solely on the shoulders of the Pastor. Lets think about our other team members...

In 1 Corinthians 3:6 Paul writes: “I planted, Apollos watered, but God gave the growth." We must never forget that no matter how hard we work, we are dependent on the movement of God’s Spirit to bring fruit. It is never all on us. In the end, whatever we do is for God’s glory and we must never forget that God is the key player on our team.

The next key players are our brothers and sisters in Christ. In American Christianity we have mistakenly bought into the concept that we hire the pastor to do the work of ministry. In Ephesians 4 Paul lays out the role of the Pastor saying, "The gifts he gave were that some would be apostles, some prophets, some evangelists, some pastors and teachers,  to equip the saints for the work of ministry, for building up the body of Christ until all of us come to the unity of the faith and of the knowledge of the Son of God, to maturity, to the measure of the full stature of Christ." The role of those gifted as Pastors/Teachers is to equip the saints for the work of ministry. If we are doing it all we will flame out in discouragement and exhaustion. When feeling alone remember there are millions of fellow Christians serving the same King!

The final key players are the other leaders around us. God has gifted and called leaders in your local church, in your community, in your state and nationally to help you succeed as well. When we think about it that way, we realize that there are resources, power, and support systems all around us.

Sometimes we feel alone because we are not willing to reach out and ask for help. Ministers are notoriously self-sufficient. That wrong thinking leaves us feeling we are alone and often overwhelmed. You have a great team around you...take advantage of those resources, and the weight of the world will lift from your shoulders.

January 22, 2019

You Could Have Been a Great Leader!

Dr. William Jones, State Pastor, Church of God in Michigan

Several years ago I was on a sabbatical. The main focus of my Sabbatical was to make preparations for finishing well. At that time I had about eight years left before my retirement from our State Ministry and I wanted to do all I could to finish well: honoring the Lord, the Church that had put their trust in me, and finally my family.

I spent several days with Dr. Al Ells. He is a well know author and counselor to leaders. (If you have not read his book, Leaders That Last, you will want to get it!) He put me through a battery of assessments, and had me do some extensive homework. In one of our sessions, Dr. Ells said to me words I will never forget…”Bill you have been a good leader; you could have been a great leader! But you chose to do ministry alone.” I wanted to argue with him, but I knew he was correct. I always believed I could lead, learn, and succeed on my own. My pastorates were in northern Michigan where there were few other Church of God congregations, and when there were state or national meetings I thought they took too long or were too far away (often disguised as too expensive). If you were to ask me who mentored me in ministry, I would say John Maxwell through his books, conferences, and audio lessons...though I never met him personally.

I learned too late in my ministry that I really did need other people. From that point to today, I have worked more at collaborating and counseling with others rather than just depending on my own knowledge or intuition. I have found real joy and help in collaborating with others. If I were younger, I would spend more time building relationships with colleagues and coaches to lead with the help of others rather than doing it alone.

What about you? It is very easy to retreat to the ivory tower of our office and do ministry alone. For most of us it is our default position. You may be doing very well alone...I did. But it was not the best for my ministry. I want to encourage you to connect with colleagues and friends in your community and in the Church of God in Michigan. There is so much to gain listening, sharing, learning, and playing together. Our annual Ministers Retreat is next week. It provides a wonderful place to “let your hair down,” and collaborate. You can still register, call my office and Goldie will help you. If it is too late this year, look now at your calendar and make a priority for those opportunities to connect with friends and colleagues!

January 14, 2019

Handling Discouragement

Dr. William Jones, State Pastor, Church of God in Michigan

"I really believed that I was led by God to have the Church build a new gymnasium! I can't believe that my board said no!" The subject of the last sentence could be changed to starting small groups, to serving in a local school, starting a second worship service...the list can be endless. What do you do when your board of the church says no? Every working role in life has its times of discouragement. Discouragement comes to us all, but it can feel more poignant when one believes God is leading us, and we are still turned down. Lets think for a few minutes of disappointment in Ministry...

One of the hardest things to discern is whether an idea is coming from me or from God. This is the first place to go when your plans get blocked. Spend much time in prayer, asking the Lord to help you know if the idea you feel devoted to is from Him or you. If you are convinced that the idea...plan...direction to take the church is from Him, then you go to step two.

How can I communicate differently, so that my leaders see what I do? Often an idea is dismissed because we have not communicated long enough, or clearly enough for my leaders to buy-in. This communication must answer questions beyond what we want to do. We must communicate: Why, How, Anticipated results, Challenges/Roadblocks, Benefits and Drawbacks. Leaders make their best decisions when they have all the facts and have dealt with all their questions.

The third aspect of dealing with a discouraging answer is to give it time. People often balk when they feel they are being pressured to make a decision quickly. Giving people time to think, to talk to one another, and ask their questions provides a higher likelihood that they will say yes when it comes to vote. There are decisions that need to be made immediately, but these should only be emergencies. If most of our decisions are needed in a hurry, we are not planning well.

Finally, sometimes when I, as a leader have what I want or even what God wants turned down, my leaders say no. Then, I might be wrong! This is hard to say, but it is critical to recognize that I am not the source of all wisdom, nor am I the only one to whom the Lord speaks. Many years ago I had an idea, that I was sure would be best for the church. My board said no and I could not convince them differently. In fact, they went a whole different direction. Time proved that they were right.

When discouraged about being blocked or turned down, go through the process above. Always be willing to communicate better and give plenty of time and always willing to admit that maybe I am wrong.

January 7, 2019

We do it, you help vs. You do it we help

Dr. William Jones, State Pastor, Church of God in Michigan

All of my life I have been part of congregations that needed help. From needing nursery workers to choir members, to youth leaders, the church was always looking for people to help keep the machinery of the church purring. I have seen people get so excited about a new family that visits saying something like, "We could really use that young couple in our youth ministry." or "He is a business man in town, I hope he believes in tithing." Or a tired single mom brings her two small children to the nursery, and someone in the nursery says, "If she is planning on bringing her kids, she better sign up to help in here." I confess that these are some of the most egregious things I have encountered during the past 40 years of ministry, but they do reflect a mindset in the Church that sees people as resources to use rather than souls to love.

All the churches I pastored have somehow had a similar mindset. What we were saying is "we do help." We do a musical, we do a children's program, we do a youth activity...and we would love you to help. It makes the church/staff the pool of ministry ideas, and the parishioners, the human resources needed to pull off any given ministry.

I am thinking about a change in mindset. It takes reversal of attitude toward people. In my last article I wrote about the passage of scripture in Ephesians 2:10 that describes God's children as his workmanship or his masterpieces. What if we began to see every person as someone we are to help become all God wants them to be rather than someone to help us accomplish a program or ministry? What we would be saying is "you do it...we help." In this scenario we help people find their passion for ministry and equip, support, and encourage them to accomplish something great for God. You love music, let's help you develop, you care about the poor, or the mistreated, or the hurting, let's find ways to live out that concern. The list of passions can go on and on.

This attitude has more of an emphasis on sending into ministry rather than using for needs. Yes, this is risky, because if we help people fulfill their God gifted destiny, they might not stay at our church. They might serve in another venue while worshipping and being discipled by us. It comes back to a critical issue: will our church be outwardly focused or inwardly focused. We will go into all the world or stay cloistered away from the world?

Thanks for letting me think with you. I look forward to your comments to continue the conversation.